tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6136317243086694706.post186784893976207581..comments2023-09-20T17:40:13.752-07:00Comments on Patient Subfertility: Cheese Stands AlonePatient Subfertilityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02818601338460813290noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6136317243086694706.post-68294999673150823432015-04-22T11:21:24.592-07:002015-04-22T11:21:24.592-07:00I'm still here, too... And I can totally relat...I'm still here, too... And I can totally relate to the feeling of being left behind, as most of the blogs I have been following have turned into pregnancy blogs bar one or two (and most of the non-preggers ones have gone dormant). It does sort of affect my ability to follow closely and comment on blogs, especially if I'm feeling particularly fragile. It's sad, but as you said, ideally infertility blogs should turn into pregnancy blogs.. the sense of feeling left behind is just a shitty part and parcel of this journey. I just hope and pray that we won't be left behind permanently, but will join the pregnancy ranks soon.. So just wanted to say, I feel you, sister, I feel you.xxHaislahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00447101581192623859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6136317243086694706.post-51807633167713450782015-04-21T04:57:10.095-07:002015-04-21T04:57:10.095-07:00You're right, words are powerful. And for thos...You're right, words are powerful. And for those of us who don't know you outside of this blog, words is all we have to send love, support and positive thoughts to you.<br /><br />And, it's perfectly reasonable to stay away from pregnancy blogs for now. Or forever. Whatever you need for yourself. <br /><br />I'll keep reading yours all the same and, when it turns into a pregnancy blog, I'll keep coming back for more. RHMummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11288679777324292266noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6136317243086694706.post-33530849043515252022015-04-20T17:31:43.556-07:002015-04-20T17:31:43.556-07:00LOL. Of course it's cool. Good to see you. ...LOL. Of course it's cool. Good to see you. Ideally an infertility blog SHOULD turn into a pregnancy blog, that's kind of the point. I just can't deal with that right now. But that's on me.<br /><br />Thanks for the love. Really, I mean that. And thanks for checking in.Patient Subfertilityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02818601338460813290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6136317243086694706.post-74994232950764395052015-04-20T14:00:11.246-07:002015-04-20T14:00:11.246-07:00I'm one of those people, though I haven't ...I'm one of those people, though I haven't reached the bitching about a breast pump yet so I honestly say to you, don't go to my blog. It's cool. I understand. I don't expect you to come there. <br /><br />But I will say, it took us 5 years to conceive. We never did IVF so I can't attest to that financial atrocity (too far?) and our MC was so long ago that I rarely talk about it. Our baby would have been 4 this July. After that, we had nothing til this year. so I get the time thing. The longer it goes the harder it is. And the crazier you feel. <br /><br />My point is. I've been there. I've been the cheese left in group after group as everyone got pregnant but me. I try not to talk about me here, cos we're talking about you and I know how much I hated the "never lose hope it happened for me" kind of comments (seriously, people, shove it) but I will say, you may feel alone but I want you to know you aren't. I get your frustration. You can be angry and hate everyone, It's valid and fair. I'm gonna keep hoping and cheering you on. I want this for you. <br /><br />and if it's cool with you I'm gonna keep checking in. If not, I'll keep the hoping though.Christy https://www.blogger.com/profile/08001252581947151515noreply@blogger.com